Meeting People to Contract
Again, if you are new at this; it’s easy to meet people who are into BDSM, there is a certain WAY to do it. Try placing an ad yet before you do, look at other ads that you may find an appropriate fit for your own. And please don’t feel you have to wear leather or any bondage gear to initiate. Everyone from large corporation owners to your everyday person is into this. Most upper classed do not want to be associated with this community because most are ignorant as to what’s really happening within these circles. So don’t go on a first date in gear. It might surprise you which people dabble in BDSM all the time. In order to meet a person to dominate that you don’t see regularly, start by wearing a choker for a necklace. If you seek a submissive, you DO know, drop something and make them kneel before you. They should stay on both knees to returning it. First ignore them, watch for a response- then wait to give them permission to stand.

Rules
Stay calm and smooth. Don’t start the Domina game until the submissive in on contract with you. If it is a spouse, there should be key words or clear, plain English used to establish the start of game play, and the end of game play. And if you are new at this, go with the flow!